Friday, July 13, 2012

The search continues....


July 12, 2012

So although things with Mr. Chemistry re going great and we text regularly and we have a second date planned, I am keeping my options open. I have 2 weeks left on this thing and I might as well keep looking. I am not putting all my eggs in one basket because you just never know. And Mr. Chemistry has a lot of spelling errors in his profile and it annoys me. I mean use the freaking spell check.

So when I logged on I had 2 photo likes. Which, to me, is a creepy thing because I don’t really need men liking my photos. It’s a little weird. I have 6 emails, 3 winks, and 2 favorites. I put 3 of my people in the interested category of my profile.
Lets get down to business. Everyone interested in me are no, no, and no. What do people who live 50 miles from me think I would want to date them?!?! That’s starting off long distance. Hell to the no.

Email #1 is Mr. FellowOU. He literally emailed me july 8th. I kinda feel like an ass.

His email:
RE:
Hey emily. I've been on here about 2 weeks. I've had a few people contact me, and I've contacted a few that I'm interestef in. Luckily no guys have gotten in touch with me...haha. but don't rush to judgement, I have no problems with gays. I have not met anyone in person. Id love to keep chatting with you, and if ur willing, maybe grab a bite or drink sometime. I promise, I'm not one of those online creepers. Do you make it back to OU at all? Hope u had a great weekend!

My response:

Hey,

Haha I have no problem with gay people either; however I am not on match to date a girl J I would love to keep chatting and I am down to get drinks and food. Haha I’m glad you’re not the Craig’s list killer. Makes me feel a little better. I don’t really make it to OU as I would like. How about you? Talk to you soon.

E

He seems nice and friendly. I don’t really know if anything would spark between us but whatever you have to give everything a try on here.

So this is a gem of an email. Not only is he a teacher but there are spelling and grammar errors in here. Awesome. It annoys me. Now I know that I have typos when I write these long ass blogs but to make some of these grammatical mistakes when you are on a computer is nuts. Also, I think I am over this process.

Nice to meet you
Hi,

How are you? Enjoying your summer I hope! I am also a teacher. I teach 5th grade math and 6th grade social studies. I do summer camp over the summer but I am off at 3:30 every day so it is no big deal. Plus it is more about just playing games than teaching which is a nice change of pace. I also coach 7th and 8th graders. I find them to be hilarious. It is great you like to stay active. What are some of your favorite places in hye park? My friends and I tend to end up a RP MvMurphy's because we know several servers there. That is sweet you want to go to Ireland. I would love to visit their some day as well. I think we would have a lot of fun haning out or talking with one another. So let me know if you would like to.

I mean I’m not commenting on this one. I have read his profile, looked at his pictures, and read this email and I just know he isn’t my match. He is kinda a dork and I can look at him and see that we are different.

I feel like I have a different outlook on this online dating right now because nothing new is sparking that I am interested in and I am excited to see how things go with Mr. Chemistry. Could this process be shorter than I thought? Maybe but also maybe not. I am not the settling type and I going to keep going on dates and wait for a spark. I know that  spark is out there for me. 

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